Or is it women who are struggling with their inability to attract a partner?
Before I launch into this most unforgiving dissection of modern womanhood, I would like to acknowledge all the good women out there who never signed up for the feminist agenda but now find themselves caught up in its highly dysfunctional aftermath. This article is not aimed at them, but their deluded, self-entitled “modern” sisters who thought they could have their cake and eat it too. In the article that follows, the term “modern women” does not signify women born in modern times per se, but those self-entitled characters who mindlessly bought into the intensely anti-feminine movement that is feminism.
You’ve no doubt heard about the “male loneliness epidemic” - an alleged worldwide plague that has left males drowning in the misery of solo-hood.
To be sure, there are more single people now than ever before. But the rise in single and divorced status is just as pronounced among women as men.
According to Our World in Data, US marriage rates peaked the year after WWII ended, bobbed up and down for a while, then commenced a long decline in the 1970s. As the following graph shows, it’s not just Anglo-Western countries that have experienced this drop. Marriage rates remain near all-time lows for countries as disparate as Australia, Japan and Mexico.

A 2023 Pew Research survey found that, overall, US women were more likely than men to be unpartnered (44% vs. 40%).
Up to the age of 39, women are more likely to be partnered than men, although the differences aren’t exactly huge. From age 40 - when the fertility game is pretty much over for most women - the situation reverses and women find themselves more likely than men to be without a partner.

Just because someone - male or female - is single, does not necessarily mean they are wallowing in misery. Yet the “male loneliness epidemic” thesis holds that men specifically are plagued by record levels of crippling loneliness.
As UCI’s New University notes, “The term ‘male loneliness epidemic’ insinuates that men are unique in their aloneness and incomparably helpless when finding friends and partners.”
It’s a most curious insinuation, because it’s not men who are incessantly pissing and moaning on social media about their inability to find a partner.
It’s women.
Lots and lots of women. You could literally spend days bingeing on videos of women of all shapes and colors complaining about their inability to attract a male suitor.
They’re complaining that men don’t approach them anymore. They’re complaining about going to bars and getting ignored. They’re complaining about getting all dolled up for speed-dating and singles events, only to arrive and find no men there.
When you read the comments underneath videos on the topic, something else becomes readily apparent:
Lots of men are not bothered about being single. In fact, many are reveling in their single status.
They speak of peace and quiet, a lack of drama, of sleeping better, of being able to save money, of being answerable to themselves only, of no longer having to tolerate someone who demands the Earth but contributes little, and of not having to worry about being mercilessly stripped of their assets.
There is a major shift taking place in the male attitude towards romantic relationships and marriage, and a lot of women are struggling to come to grips with it.
The striking irony is that this shift was triggered by women.
Modern Women: “We Don’t Need Men! Leave Us Alone!”
Modern Women: “Where Have All the Men Gone? Why Don’t They Approach Us Anymore?”
For a long time, women have had it far too easy in the dating arena, thanks to a largely unquestioned cultural norm that expects men to approach women and pay for dates. As a result, most women have not had to develop the social skills and internal fortitude required to approach a stranger. They’ve instead been able to sit back and enjoy the role of being pursued.
I’m not sure where it is written that men must approach women.
To be honest, I’m guessing it is written absolutely nowhere, except in that awful tome known as The Rules. That was a wildly popular 1990s guide for women on how to attract a husband and keep him. As is so often the case with fake experts, the authors’ realities belied their own advice; one of them was going through a divorce at the same time The Rules II was being released.
Lolz.

Despite the constant woke wankery about “male privilege”, the chore of approaching the opposite sex has been lumped on men for as long as anyone alive can remember.
Dumb people - I mean, really dumb people, like the authors of The Rules - will tell you this is the way it should be. They discourage women from approaching men, claiming “males are hunters, they enjoy the thrill of the chase.”
Apart from “COVID is real” and “South Australia Police are not corrupt, revenue-raising assholes”, I’ve never heard anything dumber in my life.
First of all, hunting is not a romantic endeavor. It’s about stalking wild game and then, when the moment presents itself, killing it - preferably with a well-placed shot to the head or neck. You then drag the carcass back to your ute, take it home, skin and gut it, carve the meat from the bones, cooking some for immediate consumption and freezing the rest.
If this is how you view romantic relationships, you’re a psychopath.
The reality is that, for 99% of men, cold-approaching a female he finds attractive, yet doesn’t know from a bar of soap, is not a thrill. It’s not even remotely enjoyable.
It plain sucks.
He has no idea what she’s into and what she likes to talk about, and therefore has no idea what to say.
The old admonition to just say “hi” is about as helpful and genius-level as advising someone to open a door before walking through it.
Well duh. Most men understand the concept of social salutation; what to say after the initial greeting is the problem.
Women, instead of helping guys out, and instead of cherishing the female privilege of not having to approach, often let the attention go to their heads. Many got a bit too cocky for their own good.
Sometimes they were indifferent. Some, instead of contributing to the conversation, seemed to enjoy watching the guy wallow in awkwardness and struggle to keep a coherent conversation going.
Sometimes women were downright rude. They made a snide remark or belittled the guy.
All of which, unless the guy was genuinely disrespectful in his approach, was wholly unnecessary.
Believe it or not, I was a once a buff young twenty-something who got cold-approached by females (the bulk of my twenties occurred in the 1990s, long before Internet dating and #MeToo exerted their terminally toxic effect). When I didn’t find a girl attractive, I’d politely respond with a white lie, like “sorry, but I have a girlfriend." If her approach included a compliment, I said something like, “that’s very nice of you, I appreciate it.”
What I didn’t do was look the girl up and down, roll my eyes, and then snarl “you’re too fat/lanky/short/ugly/poor/[insert other unwarranted insult here].”
Nor did I simply stand there staring back at her with a smug sense of bemusement as she struggled to make conversation.
A lot of women, however, were and are incapable of such basic pleasantry.
The social convention expecting men to approach women, and the unquestioning willingness of men to conform to it, tricked a lot of women into thinking they were too cool for school.
They acted as if the guy was beneath them, and that his approach was some sort of grievous insult. Men, you see, were supposed to be mind-readers who could tell ahead of time whether a woman found them attractive or not. When males failed to exercise this amazing extra-sensory perception, the women acted smarmy. If they were with a group, sometimes their female friends joined in the derision.
Men were just supposed to take it, and move on. Well, they eventually did - just not in the way women were planning.
Sometimes it can take a while for people to be disabused of their illusions, but it eventually happens.
Women are finally being hit with the reality that men don’t actually need to approach them. There is no legal obligation for a man to approach a woman - yet plenty of potential social and legal consequences if she falsely accuses him of doing something untoward.
Furthermore, women are now learning the hard way that if you keep telling the opposite sex you no longer need them, the opposite sex will eventually wake up and realize the vice-versa is also true.
Men are now concluding they no longer need women.
If a dude can cook, clean and earn his own money, why does he need a woman? I mean, isn’t that what modern women kept telling everyone who would listen about men?
Men are realizing they too have options.
Endless mind games, or video games?
Endure someone making mountains out of molehills, or grab your bike and go for a blast in the mountains?
For a lot of guys, it’s not exactly a hard choice.
It truly stuns me that so many women are so hopelessly ignorant as to why things have turned out the way they are.
It wasn’t just #MeToo, although that was probably the straw that broke the camel’s back - along with toxic social media posts accusing innocent guys doing absolutely nothing wrong of being “creeps”.
It was decades of feminism, insisting that men were the root of all evil.
It was decades of hook-up culture, which led women to grossly overestimate their true attractiveness. They confused being used by men for casual sex as proof they could secure a high-quality long-term partner - when the exact opposite was in fact true.
It was laws that granted at least 50% of the main earner’s assets to the partner upon divorce and even dissolution of a “common law” relationship. A lazy woman with no talent and ambition could literally become rich simply by “divorcing well”.
Men, we were supposed to believe, deserved to get screwed over like this because they were members of some evil club called ThePatriarchy™, whose alleged mission was to keep the female gender in shackles, while furthering the privileges enjoyed by men. You know, like having to nervously approach snide women and getting stripped like bark from a tree in the family courts.
I don’t ever recall getting ThePatriarchy™ membership card. To double-check, I just emptied my wallet, but all that came out was Australian banknotes, credit cards, library cards, op shop loyalty cards, and a couple of Euros from my last overseas trip that I’d forgotten about.
Thinking maybe I was victim of a clerical error, I rang around and asked my friends if they’d ever been invited to join ThePatriarchy™.
“Ralph, are you in a club called The Patriarchy?”
“The what?!?”
“The Patriarchy. It’s a club for dudes aimed at keeping women oppressed.”
“Never heard of it. The only oppression around here is trying to run a business while dealing with all these government and council assholes.”
I kept ringing and asking, but kept drawing a blank. None of my friends had ever been invited to join this mythical men’s club. The closest I came was a friend who’d recently been invited to join an all-dudes indoor soccer team, but work and family responsibilities meant he had to decline the offer.
Hmmm.
Not content with making up tales about non-existent men’s clubs, modern women simply couldn’t dump on men enough.
Women could do anything a man could do, so men were therefore redundant.
Men were predators. Men were creepy. If a guy happened to glance in her direction, it was proof he was a raging sex predator deserving of virulent public shaming on social media. Never mind he had no interest in her mediocre carcass, but was simply trying to see if the seated row machine behind her was free.
Men had allegedly constructed a glass ceiling that was holding women back. Which begged the question: If women could do anything a man could do, why didn’t they grab a hammer and safety googles, tell everyone to stand back, and smash the bloody glass?
I mean, that’s what a man would do.
When asked if they would rather spend a night in the woods with a man or a bear, women chose the bear.
Of course, none of these women were required to confirm their preference. None of them actually had to follow through and spend a night alone with an animal notorious for eating its prey while still alive. The whole charade was just more of modern women being female chauvinist pigs and reveling in their fave past-time of man-hate.
Men got the memo. Women despised them.
Women wanted men to leave them alone.
So men left them alone.
Women complained men never listen, that they instead “mansplained”.
But men did listen to women.
Now women are complaining about the consequences of men listening.
So now, as a man, I’m going to splain what’s going on, and what modern women who are not too far gone can do about it.
Listen up, modern women. You might learn something. I get that you all think you know everything, but you clearly don’t. If you did, you’d be having “brunch” with a decent guy instead of incessantly posting whiny videos about the dire lack of blokeage in your lives.
When Life Isn’t Working Out, Blame Someone Else
Many moons ago, after settling into my first Melbourne job, one of the female employees approached me during my lunch break with the following line of questioning:
“Are you gay?”
“No.”
“Are you sure?”
“I’m sure I’d know by now if I was. Why?”
“Because you never look at any of the women here.”
“That’s right. Because I don’t find any of you attractive.”
And so the conversation ended as quickly as it began.
When you show no interest in a woman, or group of women, many seem incapable of accepting they’re simply not your type. Their insecurities simply won’t allow for this kind of admission, so they instead concoct a narrative which maintains there is something wrong with you. Years ago, the choice rationalization was that the dude must be homosexual. A couple of decades and several freighter loads of feminist bullshit later, the new excuses are that men are “insecure”, don’t have the “confidence” to approach, and are “intimidated” by “strong” and “successful” women.
Let’s get something straight: Just because you have a job, a car, and a TikTok account, does not mean you are “successful”. It just means you are one of countless people who also have these things.
I hate it to break it to you, cherub, but you’re not special. Your wealth and station in life are not so awe-inspiring that men are “intimidated” by you.
If anything, a lot of men would prefer to team up with a grounded girl who is just as wealthy or even wealthier than them, because it would reduce their chances of getting shaken down in family court. But, let’s face it, that girl ain’t you.
Here are a couple of ladies who get it:
As for men being insecure and not confident enough to approach, that’s a precious charge coming from a demographic who incessantly tells us it can do anything men can do, yet consistently refuses to prove it.
Which brings us to yet another glaring and extremely unattractive trait that’s turning men off in droves:
Hypocrisy.
Women can reportedly do anything a man can do, yet many still refuse to approach a man they find attractive.
What’s the matter, modern femmes: Feeling “insecure” and lacking “confidence”? Are you “intimidated” by “strong” and “successful” men?
I Am a Strong Independent Woman - Now Give Me Free Stuff
Men are also getting sick and tired of funding the freebie addiction that afflicts modern women. The following self-entitled, ceramic-looking charmer exemplifies the “I have female genitalia, therefore men should buy me stuff” mentality:
Ladies, if you can do anything a man can do, then you can buy your own damn drinks. If you can’t afford to do so, either get a job or learn better money management. Stay away from the bars and save your money until you can cover the cost of your own beverages.
Better yet, just stay away from the bars. They’re sleazepits, good for nothing except getting inebriated, impulsively hooking up with strangers, and racking up body-counts that disqualify you as a long-term prospect to any decent guy.
If you thought expecting free drinks was a bit precious, check out the form on this heavily-plasticized motor mouth. During a first date she handed the guy an invoice totaling US $478.00 for “pre- and post-date expenses” - then got annoyed when he refused to pay!
Modern women want all the good bits of equality, but think they can eschew the icky bits. You know, like having to approach men and pay their own way.
That’s not how life works, my little bar-hopper grasshoppers.
What Mums and Dads Should Be Telling Their Daughters - But Evidently Aren’t
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Youth is Wasted on the Young
Physically, a woman’s prime years are her twenties. That’s when most women are at the height of their physical attractiveness.
Which means her twenties are when a woman should be putting her best foot forward and actively looking for a long-term suitor.
Feminism, Hollywood and the media, however, convinced modern women to take a different path. These highly toxic influences convinced women they could have their cake and eat it too.
Degenerate trash like Sex and the City led women to believe they could indulge in a life of indiscriminate, consequence-free sex.
Modern women came to believe they could hoe their way through their twenties and early thirties, then magically flip a switch, find a good man, and settle down happily ever after.
That’s not how it works - as lots of women are now finding out the hard way.
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Men Don’t Respect Promiscuous Women
I can’t believe I need to point this out, but taking life cues from Hollyweird and sleazy lifestyle magazines is eminently stupid. Especially when you are a grown adult. When Sex and the City, MTV and Cosmopolitan drip-fed you the idea that modern woman’s highest calling was to churn through shlongs the way a gravel cyclist goes through tyres, they were taking the piss. They were brainwashing you with a toxic fantasy.
So now, I bring you the stone cold truth:
Good men don’t want reformed floozies. They don’t want high-mileage women who racked up double- or even triple-digit body counts while still in their twenties.
Why not?
Because it’s gross. No decent guy wants to take a girl with a massive eww-factor home to mum. He doesn’t want to introduce such a girl to his friends, only for one of them to pull him aside and whisper “dude, I hate to be the one to tell you this, but Johnny saw this chick blow three guys at a party.”
The standard modern woman response to this, of course, is that a woman’s past shouldn’t matter.
Oh, but it does, my little sausage-hopper grasshoppers.
If a woman can demand a guy meets a lengthy shopping list of requirements, including 90th percentile height and salary thresholds, he can sure as hell require that she hasn’t been run through by a long list of strangers.
First of all, there is the obvious increased disease risk that comes with promiscuity. A study of female university seniors found those with 5 or more sexual partners were eight times more likely to report having an STD than those with only 1 partner, even after adjusting for age at first intercourse.
Secondly, one of the strongest predictors of infidelity is the number of lifetime sexual partners a person has had. A 2019 survey of 1,001 US adults found those reporting four or fewer lifetime sexual partners had a marriage infidelity rate of 11%, compared to 21% for those reporting five or more sexual partners. Numerous other studies have replicated these findings (for a discussion, see Barta et al, 2005).
If the infidelity rate doubles once a person’s body count reaches five, imagine the risk that comes with marrying some wannabe porn star with 20+ previous partners?
I’ll pass. In fact, I’ll run so fast from a girl like this I’d make Usain Bolt look like a fat asthmatic. So would any other decent guy.
Let’s face it ladies: Treating the most intimate part of your body like a semen receptacle for drunken strangers doesn’t exactly scream “self respect”, does it?
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The Law of Supply and Demand Applies to Human Relationships
Women, as I’ve noted, are at their most physically attractive during their twenties. Naturally, this is when they attract the most interest from males. Unfortunately, this attention often goes to their heads. Internet dating exacerbated the situation, because it enabled all those guys who didn’t want to deal with the cumbersome ritual of approaching women in person to instead show interest by merely tapping their keyboard or phone screen.
As a result, a lot of women in their twenties appear far more interested in using dating as a validation and ego-boosting mechanism, rather than an avenue for finding a long-term partner.
This indicates skewed priorities, insecurity, and a staggering ignorance of biological reality.
Men are by no means immune to the effects of Father Time but, providing they keep temperate habits, enjoy a far greater window when it comes to producing offspring. Heck, blokes as old as 96 have fathered healthy children.
For most women, however, their fertility cycle pretty much runs out of steam by the age of 40.
Which means that once a woman exits her twenties, her value on the dating and mating market begins to fall. If she hasn’t taken good care of herself, but instead subjected herself to a constant stream of late nights, cocktails, and casual hook-ups, her market value plummets.
Irrespective of whether men are seeking short-term or long-term partnerships, they are hardwired for attraction to females offering the best perceived chance of reproductive success. Which likely explains why the male preference for female waist:hip ratios of 0.6-0.7 existed long before all those TikTok booty videos became a thing.
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Stop Gaslighting Men, They’re Not Falling For It
Modern women aren’t going down without a fight. They’re clawing tooth and nail to maintain their habit of avoiding accountability and instead blaming their problems on men.
Instead of recognizing the current male-female dynamic as the logical and predictable outcome of decades of raucous man-hate, they’re maintaining the rage - and the delusion that it’s all men’s fault.
Years ago, if a man wasn’t interested, he was either gay or “afraid of commitment”.
Now that the numbers of clearly heterosexual men going their own way has dramatically increased, they’ve been forced to come up with new excuses.
Men are “insecure” and “intimidated” by successful women, even when these women aren’t particularly successful. Men can’t handle a “strong woman”, they claim.
In fact, if you really want to see a modern woman of the Caucasian persuasion lose her shit, tell her you have a preference for Asian females.
You can then sit back and watch Da Sistahood degenerate into a most unsisterly shitshow of racist stereotyping, claiming Asian women are “compliant” and ‘submissive” (something only an idiot who has never dated an Asian woman would say).
Let me splain what these women are really saying:
“I’m angry and resentful that men don’t find me attractive. As a racist, I’m especially resentful that men would rather date someone from a non-Caucasian culture where family values still feature prominently.
To hide the insecurities that well up inside when I hear this, I’ll simply call the man weak, and label the woman as compliant and submissive when in reality she’s just more reasonable, agreeable and far more grounded than us spoiled little end-products of Western hook-up culture.”
This is going to upset a lot of people, but it needs to be said:
Modern women in the West are not a strong breed, neither physically nor psychologically.
Last time I checked, it was Chinese females who were dominating women’s weightlifting. Here’s Chinese phenom Deng Wei setting a clean and jerk world record by hoisting the equivalent of 1.87 US females above her head - at a body weight of only 63 kg.
As for Western women being especially robust mentally, the claim is laughable.
The US, UK, Canada, Australia and New Zealand are among the world’s most voracious consumers of antidepressants.
CDC data from 2023 found US women (15.3%) were more than twice as likely to take medication for depression than men (7.4%).
Similarly, Australian women are twice as likely as Aussie men to be taking antidepressants.
So much for the strong Western woman hypothesis.
All of which beings me to the next key piece of advice.
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Grow Up, Act Like an Adult, and Show Some Accountability
We’ve all heard the term “man-child” bandied about, a term describing a male adult who supposedly refuses to grow up.
What we are now seeing is the Hollyweird and feminism-induced plague of the woman-child.
Faced with the inevitable consequences of decades of man hate, modern women are refusing to accept responsibility for their actions.
They refuse to acknowledge their current frustrations are the inevitable consequence of years of hypocritical sexism, an undeserved sense of entitlement, and unbridled derision of men.
They refuse to accept that they got sucked in by hook-up culture.
They refuse to accept that men don’t want a ran-through leftover with a distastefully high body count.
They are annoyed that increasing numbers of men refuse to participate in the humiliation ritual that is approaching women.
They don’t like that men refuse to accept the repugnant insinuation they are inherently flawed for being born with a penis.
They don’t like the reality that men are increasingly refusing to provide women with free stuff. Men are not obligated to buy a strange woman drinks and shower her with gifts, no more than a woman is obligated to do this to a random male.
Instead of accepting the harsh truth, modern women are resorting to insults and gaslighting. They have concocted a stream of self-serving rationalizations and theories to explain why men are increasingly refusing to pander to their whims, and they’re all bullshit.
Men are not insecure or intimidated nor scared of ‘strong’ women who are in fact physically weaker and twice as likely to be depressed and taking psychotropic medications then they are.
Men are simply fed up. They’re over it.
They’re increasingly acknowledging that dating and marriage have long been rigged in favor of women. They’re refusing to bet against the house, because the house almost always wins.
They’re also realizing they don’t need to tolerate hypocritical sexism and entitlement from women. If women really hate men so much, there is nothing stopping them from pooling their resources, buying large tracts of land, and forming Planet Lesbian-type colonies.
Of course, we all know how that genius plan would pan out.
When modern women refuse to accept what seems blindingly obvious to everyone else outside their entitled demographic, they are displaying a highly infantile mentality.
They are acting like children. The big difference is that children are still in their formative years and yet to undergo psychological maturation. When you’re a grown-ass adult yet still insisting you are owed something simply for existing, and blaming others for problems that you and your deluded ilk caused, there are no excuses. You simply need to grow the hell up.
Are some men assholes?
Absolutely. But women could go a long way towards helping themselves by not actively selecting for these assholes. I’ve personally heard women express a preference for “bad boys”; these very same women were constantly embroiled in high-drama encounters and relationships. When I remarked to a female co-worker a few years back that the first rule of dating in Australia was “women love wankers”, she giggled in agreement and remarked “I love a bad boy!” Well, she got one; when they broke up he began sending her vile emails, which stopped only after she threatened to report him to the police. The real cracker is that this woman was not a naive teenager - she was in her mid-thirties.
A bonafide woman-child.
It’s one thing to laugh about being attracted to toxic males; when you partner up with one and have children whose lives are then placed in danger, do you deserve pity - or criminal charges for endangering the life of a child?
FACT: Lesbian Partners are More Abusive than Heterosexual Male Partners
When examining the role of men in relationship disharmony, it’s worth pointing out an established fact no-one wants to talk about:
Domestic and sexual violence is significantly higher in lesbian and gay relationships than it is among heterosexual couples.
That’s the truth, Ruth.
A recent literature review returned the following estimates of lifetime prevalence of intimate partner violence in LGB couples:
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61% of bisexual women and 44% of lesbian women, compared to 35% of heterosexual women.
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37% of bisexual men and 26% of homosexual men, compared to 29% of heterosexual men.
When episodes of severe violence were considered, estimated prevalence rates were:
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Bisexual women, 49%; lesbian women, 29% versus heterosexual women, 24%.
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Homosexual men, 16% versus heterosexual men, 14%.
How’s that Planet Lesbian utopia looking, ladies?
Incidence figures for rape, typically defined as unwanted penetration or being forced to penetrate someone else, will inevitably be lower among lesbian partners for obvious anatomical reasons. But when rape, physical violence and stalking were grouped together, the The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey 2010 found 44% of lesbian women, 61% of bisexual women, and 35% of heterosexual women reported experiencing one or more of these behaviors within the context of an intimate partner relationship at least once during their lifetime.
Statistics Canada recently reported that 67% of “sexual minority” (gay, lesbian, bisexual, or otherwise non-heterosexual) women had experienced at least one type of intimate partner violence since the age of 15. This was significantly higher than the 44% of heterosexual women who reported similar experiences.
More than one-quarter (27%) of sexual minority women reported being sexually assaulted by an intimate partner at some point since age 15 compared with 11% of heterosexual women.
But hey, modern femmes, don’t listen to the research. The bear is waiting.
Wait, it’s a mama bear. And she’s salivating.
Oops.
Conclusion
Writing this article got me thinking about an old English poem my generation was made to recite in our early school years:
What are little boys made of
What are little boys made of
Snips and snails & puppy dogs tails
And such are little boys made of.
What are young women made of
Sugar and spice and all things nice
From a young age, children were being conditioned to believe boys were little grubs, while females were 100% wholesome and “nice”.
Needless to say, this was bollocks.
Some girls are clearly made of things not nice. Some grow up to be pedophiles. Some murder their children. Some chop their mother’s head off and then take it next door to show the neighbors.
The age of entitlement is over, modern women.
Men, hold the line. Those of you yet to wake up, get your pathetic simping asses off Only Fans and stop leaving cringey compliments for big booty validation-seekers on Pinterest. You’re holding up the revolution.
It’s an eminently healthy thing for women to have to start stepping up and approaching men. It’s the only way they’ll even begin to understand what the supposedly ‘privileged’ male gender has had to endure over the years.
And hey, if they truly believe in equality, they shouldn’t want it any other way.
Anyhow, have a Chupa Chup.
Ciao,
Anthony.
As one old lady who has had no partner for 20 years, I can say I would love one, and that may be happening. But I do miss the joint projects, the shared interests (like camping), and such.
But yeah, We have been groomed by the moneyed psychopaths in control on Our planet (by virtue of money) to hate and avoid One anOther. Part of Their cremation of care on Our planet.
They Groom Us to Hate One AnOther (article): https://amaterasusolar.substack.com/p/they-groom-us-to-hate-one-another
Anthony, great topic! I disagree on how well young men are doing though. They may not be like women whining on Tiktok about not finding a good woman but in my opinion they are just as messed up, confused, lost, and upside down as women. Young men are obsessed with everything from porn to six pack abs to conspicuous consumerism. Young men have no direction in life these days. They don’t approach women because they don’t know how lol not just because they don’t care. Every young man thinks his value to a woman is a 6 figure salary and a body like Mike O’Hearn. Young men have just as much insane propaganda pushed on them via social media as women. Now maybe it’s a direct result of the 100th wave feminist bs ok. But where are fathers in America? They are all a bunch of soft white collar suburbanites chasing a lifestyle and working like dogs cucked to their annoying controlling “educated” boss bitch women wives. I see it day in and day out in these white collar suburbs. American women are a ridiculous combination of tiger wives and nerfing moms. It’s amazing how many US dads will put their stupid daughters in hockey instead of teaching them how to cook, do laundry, art, dance, music and other feminine things. I have a Russian single female friend and it’s amazing how feminine she is and how she raises her daughter in Moscow. Do women need to go back to the stone age and not be able to vote? lol no, I think! lol. But we as men have allowed this because of what’s between their legs. Young men are more addicted to drugs and have higher suicide rates than ever.
I am a lonley woman dosent mean i dont want a man just not that easy to find one who is awake
Men generally look for good spellers. Might want to brush up on yours.
I wasnt having a go at men i just meant i cant find one who is awake to what is going on in the world no maybe i am not a good speller you dont what has happened to me in the past as to why i am not a good speller and if that is all your looking for good luck to you
Yes, finding a good match can be a challenge at the best of times.
Sadly, GloboPedo has done everything it can to make the task even harder.
I can only speak from my experience & perceptions. Social Media ruined the whole dynamic. Social Media did for Women what Porn did for boys. It gave women a Cabaret Venue to showcase their attributes (Lips/Hips/Tits) & created exactly the problem they typically whine & bitch about. They loathe the objectification of them however take a look at any Instagram & TiK Tok account & you can see that’s exactly what they self exploit & monetize. The Genie got let out of the Bottle & they can’t put it back now.
Most men I know are taking a pass on relationships & traveling, hunting, fishing, reading, enjoying life with a Dog & eating better. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Too much inner peace to sacrifice. Dream killers & the cost of living, social media, IOT dating is what killed the dating game.
Material things are being loved & people are what’s being used & exploited.
Hypergamy is undefeated.
Stick a fork in it it’s toast & long been done.
Excellent point about porn! I totally agree!
I’m so glad I was born in 1963!
And I had a wild youth!
“…stop leaving cringey compliments for big booty validation-seekers on Pinterest. You’re holding up the revolution.” This isn’t a terribly amusing topic, but that sure made me laugh!
I haven’t been single for a really long time … about as long ago as it’s been since I was in my 20s. And it’s hard for me to imagine how much things have changed. Kinda sad, actually. I thought the whole dating process worked pretty well back in the day. But then again, I wasn’t the type to insult a man for working up the nerve to come over for a chat.
The whole “men are pigs” scenario was indeed contrived by TPTB to result in this exact situation: far fewer families which, when headed by two people who respect themselves and each other, are the strongest units in a society. Strong families make for strong children who grow into independent adults who aren’t as easily influenced to accept the corrupt society that’s been foisted on us by gradually eroding the family.
So personally – and I say this with respect to all the decent men and women struggling to find one another in a staged battle of the sexes – it’s my hope that men and women will revolt against those evil forces rather than against each other.
100% agree.
What happened was the estrogenation of American males.
As any good rancher will tell you, you can’t have too many bulls in the herd. So when the Evil ended the soldier breeding program in America in the ’70s, they began introducing estrogenic foods like soy and corn, and synthetic hormones into the meat, poultry and plastics. And infants went from milk-based formula to soy. This overload of estrogenic hormones disrupts the developing reproductive system, so children who grew up on them, as adults will have altered reproductive systems.
Those reproductively altered male children grew up and mated with reproductively altered females and produced offspring that are so reproductively screwed up they don’t even know what sex they are.
That’s why we call Gender Dysphoria/Transgender the ‘Happy Meal Syndrome’.
And that’s why now when we need them, our soldier-age males don’t know whether to pick up a gun or a bottle of nail polish.
And our older males wonder why they can’t get it up.
True about the saturation bombing of entire populations by estrogenic compounds. I’m sure this has had (is having) many and myriad consequences.
I vividly remember the first time I visited the US as an adult (around age 25). I was walking through Golden Gate Park in San Francisco, and a 20-something guy wandered up to me, smiled and said hi. I responded in a friendly way, and as soon as he heard my Australian accent, he opened right up and began chatting. Before we parted company, he confided something that really stuck with me – he said “American women are such hard bitches. You just can’t talk to them.” That was back in 1996. Like every other toxic element of US culture, that toxic feminism has infiltrated Australian attitudes now too.
I’m so glad to be happily married and to have no involvement whatsoever with the dating scene. I worry for my 24 year old son though. I don’t know how he’s ever going to encounter a kind, decent young woman with whom he can build a life, outside of joining an Orthodox church community (which would be a bit of a problem since he’s an atheist). Bret Weinstein has talked quite a lot about young people needing to band together to intentionally opt out of the current dating scene, and to set some guidelines which protect everybody and maximise the probability of good outcomes both for the individuals and for the broader society e.g. no casual hook-ups, dating with the clear intention of finding a life partner with whom you will raise children. Great idea, but how to actualise it, is the problem.
Great comment.
Generations are conditioned by Tavistock.
Many create single lives after a lifetime of loose living with real meaning and social awareness.
I concur Bard!
Women have almost no sense of accountability. Much like a child.
That’s true for so much of modern womanhood, but I’d add the important disclaimer that there are exceptions.
Right off the top of my head, I can think of four friends and cousins who are happily married to genuinely good girls. They are great wives and mothers, none were club girls and all got married in their 20s.
But the reason I can think of them right off the top of my head is because they are such rarities.
Some better stats here: https://open.substack.com/pub/zawn/p/what-are-relationships-with-men-really
Hi LoWa,
I started reading the article, but it’s paywalled.
However, before one hits the paywall, the author states “On average, women reported having been abused by 12 men over the course of their lives. This is a crisis.”
That’s unbelievable.
As in, literally unbelievable.
How did she define “abuse” in her self-conducted survey?
Is it physical assault?
Is it bonafide emotional/psychological manipulation? (Something, I might add, women are not exactly innocent of).
Or is it when men cause women to become frustrated by not behaving exactly as women want them too?
To claim the average woman has been physically assaulted by a dozen men is absurd.
Do you know any women like this?
Any free-living, non-trafficked, grown-ass woman who gets assaulted by one partner, then proceeds to date/marry another 11 who do the exact same thing, clearly has some major mental defects – and is a person any good man should run from as fast as he can.
And if they’ve been emotionally/psychologically manipulated by this many men, it’s high time they took a good look at their dating/mating habits. It is true a lot of women are attracted to dickheads (the ‘bad boy’ syndrome), but that’s hardly the fault of good men.
As for getting pissed off when men refuse to behave like remote-controlled dolts, that’s not abuse on the man’s part. The blame depends on the individual situation – maybe it’s the woman who is being unreasonable, maybe it’s the man. Maybe it’s a combination.
Regarding the whole bad boy thing, this is another area where a lot of women need to step up and accept responsibility. When they actively express a preference for abusive wankers, it sends a message to men:
Treat ’em mean, keep ’em keen.
The mentality of the bad boys is reinforced and validated by the women themselves, while good men refuse to become abusive jerks and simply check out of the dysfunctional shitshow that is dating.
By the way, the fact that this woman is selling stickers like “Divorce His Ass” and “I don’t take orders from low-value men” tells me everything I need to know about her and her ‘research’.
When an embittered man-hater conducts ‘research’, it’s a foregone conclusion what her findings will be.
Tell her to submit her absurd findings for peer review.
I’m sure she’ll blame ThePatriarchy™ when her manuscript is returned with a big red X through it lol.
Women like this are part of the problem, not a solution to it.
It’s interesting to observe the differences between the male and female responses in this gender Cold War launched by the globalist-controlled feminist movement.
Feminism conducted a hate campaign. A campaign of what by woke’s own definition is extremist hate speech.
When GloboPedo tried to get men to do the same thing by installing wankers like Andrew Tate, even young men overwhelmingly said “yeah, nah, we’re good.”
Men are not spewing hate, holding public rallies where they burn their jock straps, etc etc – they’re just quietly checking out.
When modern women turn up the volume, men ignore them. It’s unfortunate, but sometimes this is the only way people will get the message.
Modern women will never admit it, but they’ve been behaving like petulant children for far too long. When a petulant child misbehaves, you don’t sit there trying to reason with it. You take away its toys, put it in the naughty corner, and get on with your own business until it starts behaving.
Modern women are also the epitome of bigotry. No reasonable person accuses all Italians of being criminals because of the mafia, or all black people of being gang members because of South Central LA gangs. Yet because some men – a smaller proportion than lesbians, mind you – were abusive towards women, they deemed it open season for female chauvinism.
The chickens are coming home to roost, and fake surveys conducted by an angry woman who hates men and sells misandric merch aren’t going to prevent the inevitable.
Glad to hear it and I’m working on my two girls, 19 and 17, to direct them that way. But the women in my immediate family, three generations of them? Not a speck of accountability in any of them. They’re sadly not the exception.
The effects of Social engineering